1. Help her gather resource materials such as advertisements for
florists, bakeries, travel agencies and bridal stores. Keep a record
of color swatches to give to guests who want to know the brides
color scheme.
2. Attend bridal fairs together, be sure to collect information
for her as you go, carry bags and fill out all the ballots for giveaways,
this allows the bride more time to look around.
3. Assist her with addressing labels and placing stamps on the
envelopes for wedding invitations and thank you notes.
4. On the wedding day, be sure to pack some light snack for you
both as she may have been too busy to eat.
5. Don’t forget your camera, tasteful candid shots of the
Bride getting ready can be really fun.
6. Its your job to ensure that the bride looks her best for photos
by straightening out her dress, puffing up her bouquet and touching
up her make-up.
7. It’s a really extra nice gesture when a bridesmaid goes
the extra mile and instead of just giving a speech at the reception
she have made a slide show of pictures of the bride and groom with
a special song or has even just collected pictures and made a display.
8. It’s also the Bridesmaid’s job to help at the reception.
Talk with guests while the bride and groom are busy and dance with
the brides brother who may have come alone.
9. Sorry the bridesmaid cannot leave early. She needs to stay and
help cleanup, unless someone has been hired to do so, even then
she must make sure that some mementos are saved for the bride, such
as the centerpiece, part of the wedding cake,
and a few wedding favors.
10. The Bridesmaid makes sure the bride gets
off ok, that she can get into the vehicle with her dress and vail
and that her personal belonging are not left behind. I also think
that the bridesmaid should arrange a special treat for the bride
and groom either in their car, where they are going to stay the
evening or at their home when they return such as a bottle of champagne,
basket of fruit, or a nice gift basket.
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